Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Stupid things people say


One last picture from our vacation, Arabella with our friends' son Casey (2.5 yo), we think they are plotting their elopement. Maybe, like mamma, Arabella likes the younger men.

I think some people have the list of stupid things to say to pregnant women. Yesterday I stepped out the backdoor and our ditzy neighbor said hello, then commented that I must be expecting to deliver the baby any day now. I said no, I am not due until October, 3 months from now. She was surprised and then asked HOW MUCH WEIGHT HAVE I GAINED. I let this hang in the air a moment before telling her that I have gained 18 pounds (this is the truth, I was 135 in January, I am now 153), and she was so very surprised that I have gained so little. I waddled as fast as I could off to the studio, pardoning myself as being rather busy.

OK, I am short, and small-boned, so there is not much af anywhere for the baby to go except straight out front. Also, between morning sickness and stomach flu I lost weight in the first trimester. I started showing abruptly and for awhile I was "measuring large" but at this point I am actually right on target. I know Jen wants a picture of me at this stage, maybe later.

1 comment:

Jen aka Evilynmo said...

Yet again I say, the majority of people are just dumb. I was told at the ER yesterday that I was a big woman with a big pelvis. Yeah, thanks, I wanted to hear that I am big 3 days before my husband comes home!! ARGH!!